Romantic Thriathalon

Do's and Don'ts for a Three-First-Dates Sunday

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DO make sure all three dates are within walking distance from your house.

Also, DO wear comfortable shoes.
DON'T blow your lead. If you have 10 minutes before you have to leave for the next date, don't start folding laundry, reading another chapter in your book, or doing one more chore in the kitchen.

DO buy a few bags of frozen veggies -- there will be scant time for workweek-food prep in between seeing your suitors.

DON'T schedule them all exactly back-to-back. You'll need time to change your shirt if it's a hot day.

DO take a moment to refresh your memory about each gentleman before each date. There is nothing worse than asking, "So, do you have any siblings?" when he has already told you over email that he just returned from a trip to Brazil with his sister, who also happens to be his best friend in the whole, wide, world.

What's more, DO practice saying the person's name once or twice, especially if, say, two of the guys have names that right with each other ("Thanks for the tea, Ronald. I mean, DONALD!").
DON'T do anything silly like stuff your still-damp hair under your sunhat the hour before Date #1, imagining that this will somehow "set" your summer-humidity curls. If you do, you may find yourself with five minutes to fix a situation like this:

Then again, if such a situation arises,
DO play it off like it was exactly the look you
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DON'T forget to take a moment of quiet in between rendezvous, to cleanse your palate and get centered. By Numero Tres, you may start to feel a tad winded.

DO pinch yourself as you're hurrying to meet Mr. Third, since, what a fun life you live!